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Why Boundaries Matter for Introverted Coaches

Published on
25 April 2025
Joelene Mills

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ost of us didn’t start this business with dreams of working 24/7. Or answering DMs at 10:45 p.m. Or running on fumes—mentally, physically, or both.

But here you are.

And if you are anything like me (or most of the women I know in this space), you got here with the best of intentions. You wanted to help people. Build something meaningful. Even prove to yourself that yes, you could make this work.

So you said yes. To a lot of things. Clients who were not the right fit and extra projects. To every shiny strategy that promised more leads, more sales, more visibility.

Then somewhere along the way, you got swamped, lost your mojo, and found yourself in this weird place of not quite burned out, but not really flourishing.

That is the messy middle of business.

What no one tells you about getting through it is that boundaries are what will save you.

Not another funnel. Not another lead magnet. Not another online course on how to be more visible.

Boundaries.

Because protecting your energy isn’t just about your physical health (although, yes, you’ll sleep better). It’s about the future of your business. It’s about making sustainable decisions that let you keep going—and enjoy going.

Without boundaries, even the best marketing strategy will wear you out. The most ideal clients will still drain you. Your business will start to feel like something you resent, instead of something you chose.

Boundaries are what allow you to stay in the game long enough to grow. They create the conditions for success—not just survival.

Which is why this month, I’m writing about energy and boundaries. Not because it’s a cute self-care topic. But because if you want to run a real, soul-aligned business (especially as an introvert), this matters. A lot.

And it starts with one deceptively simple question:

What do you really want from your business?

Not what you think you should want. Not what Instagram influencers tell you is success. And not what others in your industry are chasing.

What is it that you want your days to look like? When you sit down to start your work day, what kind of energy do you want to have? What will make this business worth doing—not just tolerable, but joyful, sustainable, yours?

That’s your starting point. That’s the vision boundaries help you build toward.

And over the next few weeks, we’ll talk about how to set those boundaries. How to stick to them. And how to give yourself permission to protect your Yes, so you’re not saying yes to every random ask that comes your way.

Because the truth is: You can’t market your way out of burnout. You can’t visibility-hack your way past exhaustion. You can only create space for the kind of business—and life—you actually want.

And it starts here.

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