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How Business Simplification Starts With What You Stop


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Write a Stop-Doing List This Week

Joelene Mills

We love to glorify to-do lists. Sticky notes. Task apps. Color-coded planners.

Only, your to-do list can’t save your business if you never look at what’s on your stop-doing list.

Last week, I caught myself knee-deep in Canva templates. I told myself I was “working on branding.” In reality, I was wasting hours tweaking fonts that nobody but me would ever notice. My client work didn’t move. My content didn’t get written. I was tired and cranky, with nothing real to show for it.

That’s when I went back to my Stop-Doing List.

It’s not fancy. It’s literally a sticky note with three lines:

  • Stop scrolling Canva “just in case”

  • Stop forcing myself to write Instagram captions that are full of fluff

  • Stop planning and re-planning my content instead of publishing it

And just like that, I had a clear reminder: this is what I don’t spend time on anymore.

A Stop-Doing List is a practical reset. It helps you:

  • Cut the energy leaks you’ve been tolerating

  • Notice the “busywork” that never brings results

  • Create more space for the few things that actually matter

This week, write your own list. Even if it is a single item. That’s enough. You don’t have to quit everything at once, you simply need to free up a little space.

Because we all need a reminder that sometimes progress isn’t about adding more. It is about letting go of what’s in the way.

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